The dynamics that enliven sex are rarely civil. To those who enjoy playing with power dynamics, sex can become an arena in which the brute instincts of men are consciously explored for the sake of contact. For many, deception has been woven into our erotic scripts since we were young because we had to hide in order to express ourselves. As adults, many still struggle with desires they wish to keep hidden, and many are most aroused when they are doing something deceptive: a painful mirror of what it has taken to arrive in fully adult bodies. To consciously play with deception is not for the faint of heart, as it can trigger those who play. Yet, for those who enjoy the thrill, the reward is high arousal.
